A Founder's Journey : Startup lessons from a Sleepless Night with my Toddler

In the realm of startups, the 0-1 phase is akin to those sleepless nights with a restless toddler. As a parent and founder at ComeBy, I've found uncanny parallels between coaxing a toddler back to sleep and nurturing a fledgling business. It's a journey filled with challenges, persistence, and the unwavering patience required to keep both dreams – of raising a child and a startup – alive.

1. Identifying the 'Why':

Just as I pondered the reasons behind my toddler's restless nights, the startup journey involves dissecting every hiccup. Is it teething, hunger, or an unknown variable affecting your child or business?

2. Multitasking on Overdrive:

Picture this – you're singing lullabies, rocking the crib, clutching a milk bottle, all while your brain races to identify the magical combination to soothe your little one. Similarly, as a founder, you juggle marketing, product development, customer feedback, and more, searching for the right formula to calm your startup's growing pains.

3. Patience is Key:

Losing your patience is a luxury you can't afford. Just as snapping during the toddler's nocturnal ordeal could escalate things, impatience in a startup's 0-1 phase could be detrimental. It's a test of emotional control.

4. Testing and Adapting:

Trying various tactics, from reading stories to playing with toys, teaches you that solutions are seldom one-size-fits-all. Similarly, startups iterate, adjusting strategies based on real-time feedback, pivoting as needed to find what clicks.

5. Decoding Signals:

Much like interpreting a child's cries, startups decode signals – customer feedback, market trends, data – to understand what the ecosystem demands.

6. Embracing the Unknown:

In both scenarios, you venture into uncharted territory. Your child's growth and your startup's trajectory are journeys without a roadmap, requiring you to adapt, learn, and grow.

7. Celebrating Mini Triumphs:

Every night your toddler sleeps a bit longer feels like a victory. Similarly, celebrating each milestone – a successful launch, a satisfied customer – fuels your startup journey.

8. Building Resilience:

Sleep-deprived nights build parental resilience. In the same vein, the relentless grind of a startup's 0-1 phase strengthens your entrepreneurial mettle.

9. Navigating Uncertainties:

Toddlers can't articulate their needs; startups grapple with uncertainties. Your ability to navigate these challenges defines your journey's trajectory.

10. Aiming for the Dawn:

Amid the exhaustion, the hope of dawn keeps you going. Similarly, in the startup world, the vision of a successful business keeps you pushing through the darkest hours.

As I've navigated both sleepless toddler nights and the tumultuous 0-1 startup phase, I've learned that every challenge is an opportunity. Just as your toddler's waking hours are a chance to nurture, learn, and grow together, a startup's early days are a canvas where you paint your vision, adapting and refining as needed. In both journeys, the key is embracing the uncertainty, holding onto patience, and keeping your eyes on the dawn that promises fulfillment and success.

Author:

Arjun Thomas

Co-founder @ ComeBy